Your friend could invite him and it won't be too obvious you're interested in him. If going on other dates proves tricky because the man you like asks what you're doing in the evenings or at weekends, ask him: 'Are we at a stage where we can ask each other these questions? MAN-AGEMENTWhen you finally meet a man you feel strongly about, how do you steer him towards commitment? ' He will either back off, which allows you to keep your options open, or he will express some concern, which will prompt a conversation about the seriousness of your relationship.
If the 'normal' approach of letting things unfold naturally hasn't happened yet, you can bring the issue to a head.
MASS MARKETING This will generate a variety of opportunities to meet men.
You're going to try a little of everything, including singles groups, social locations and dating services.
Call people you may not immediately have thought of. Ten minutes is the right amount of time to talk with one guest. You will learn a lot about his real intentions based on how he responds.
After the party, spend 15 minutes making a list of all the new contacts you made. If he says: 'Please don't buy a flat: it won't be big enough for both of us,' you can assume he's thinking along the right path.
DATING SERVICES: Join at least one, but do research to find one that suits you. Now fill up your calendar with specific dates when you're going to try an item in each category.